Biblical teaching on christian dating
"Dating" is not a relationship, it is a method people employ in our culture to get to know others of the opposite sex that was not employed in Biblical times.
The Bible does not talk about "dating," but it does talk about relationships.
This love is based on our relationship with Christ and is not dependent on feelings we may or may not have for a fellow-believer.
Brother-sister relationships in Christ involve two foundational elements, commitment to fulfill the responsibility of a fellow-believer in Christ and care and concern a believer is to have toward other believers.
However, the Bible does describe three kinds of relationships with the opposite sex and gives certain characteristics of each relationship (there are others such as parent/child and sibling, but they don't clarify the issues of dating).
One kind of relationship the Bible describes is friendship.
Song of Songs 1:2 says “Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth, for your love is more delightful than wine.” Husbands and wives are to rejoice in each other’s love both romantically and sexually.
It means becoming physically intimate with each other as one flesh.
Marriage involves three elements, commitment, care and concern, and emotion.
Of these three relationships, the Scriptures only speak of romantic attraction and desire being expressed in marriage.
Song of Songs gives a beautiful picture of the feelings and expression of romantic desire and attraction.