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First, there are few things sexier than anticipation and the build-up to a first kiss is positively delicious.
Secondly, it gives her plenty of time to respond; if she doesn’t want you to kiss her she’s got ample time to give you the cheek or to wave you off.
Generally, I’m a fan of just closing the distance and kissing her.
Sometimes there’s a one-finger stroke of the cheek, sometimes touching the chin.
If you get a negative reaction: she flinches, turns her head or tells you flat out “try harder” (all of which I’ve had happen), smile, pull back, change the subject, move on to something else.
Others I know have had success in pointing to their own cheek, essentially asking for a kiss from a moment, then pull back.
When you’re asking the question of “When do you kiss her”, you’re asking the wrong question.
This is one of the best, surest signs out there for when someone’s interested in being kissed.A general, all-purpose method that I endorse is the hug-to-kiss: at an appropriate emotional high-point – she’s made a joke, one of you just bowled a strike, you just finished dancing to an awesome song, something – pull her in for a hug.Pause, look her in the eyes for a second – watch for the triangle gaze! By the by: I always advocate moving slowly for the first kiss.You’re leaning in, pulling back afraid that it’s the wrong moment, trying moment, and the more you dick around trying to figure out when and where, the more time you’re wasting that could be better spent on sloppy make-outs. It’s a fun quirk of the human brain: we’re really good at retconning events to fit how we want them to be.I realize that pop culture has drilled into our collective heads that the first kiss has to be “perfect” and at “the perfect moment”. We will quite cheerfully round up a moment as “the perfect moment” because we the first kiss with our girlfriend or boyfriends to be a magcial moment.