David deangelo dating disinterest
I even thought at one point that I was making this stuff up in my head.One day I sat down and wondered what it would be like to master that emotion in me - the one that kept me from meeting and interacting socially.My experience usually went something like this: I would walk into a bar, or a restaurant - or anywhere I might meet an attractive woman - and then I would see HER.You know, that one woman that just grabs your eye, and you get obsessed - just thinking about what it would be like to talk to her, and maybe hold her in your arms on a date...(I think I must have gone through "Big Trouble in Little China" about ten times...) Between working at an office with only 4 people and sitting at home playing computer games, I wasn't meeting ANYONE. I was determined to meet these women, because I hadn't had a date in (probably longer than that, now that I think about it), and I was starting to go stir-crazy. "The longer I stayed there, the worse it got, because I had NO IDEA where to begin." How do you just go up and talk to a person you've never met before?
I almost felt like someone was holding me back physically, like being pinned to a wall.In every one of these situations where I wanted to approach a woman, I noticed that there was this point in time - just a few seconds after I saw her - where if I didn't do something right away, I knew I would not be approaching that woman or talking to her.It just wasn't going to happen if I waited beyond any time at all past that point. Ever since I could remember, I've always been afraid of walking up and talking to women.I can't explain where the heck it came from, because I have never had a woman throw her drink in my face or slap me - but this women.