He depressed dating
What are the main difference between someone losing interest vs them being distant because of them being stressed out or depressed?
I mean even if a person is stressed out or depressed because of a current situation (job loss, sickness, school, custody/ court battles etc) wouldn't they want to at least talk to their significant other because they are one of the main ones who will make them feel better because they love them? It might help to post links to the blogs you are looking at.
I've been in a 2-year dance (mostly one-sided, with the effort mainly on my part) with a guy I assumed was only interested in sex and was just a giant player. Do you find they they don't want to hang out with you but they hang out with their friends?
Turns out he's interested in a lot more than sex, but he's going through a bunch of problems (not of his own making) that have him feeling completely worthless. Do you find they they don't want to hang out with you but they hang out with their friends? Do you find them socializing on social networks when they claim they need time alone?
He would hide from her, and call me to talk about how he had lied to her. So my SO of going on seven years(living together for two) is depressed again, I say again because I now see that he has these phases of depression.
I'm frustrated with my own issues and really don't want to continue nursing him through his (for someone that's not ready for marriage).