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Try stripping down your list of "needs" and "wants" for a first date to a measly : within ten years of your own age, without significant red flags that would affect your personal safety, and within a specified geographic area.Many of my friends, clients and readers have told me time and time again that when they lessened their search criteria and opened up their mind to dating people that didn't fall into their set type, they were finally able to meet the person of their dreams.I'm signed up for some dating sites, everything from the paid "we will serve your soul mate up on a silver platter" kind to the free kind that many people just use to find NSA fun times.The former sends me a bunch of people who live in Michigan (I guess they think MI is only 60 miles from NH? The latter sends a stream of either unemployed or unambitious boys who want a one-night stand, or desperate nerds who can't get out of their own way long enough to carry a conversation. Believe me, I'm more angry at myself for letting that happen than I am at him for doing it.Other than that, there have been a few dates that just didn't spark.I find that many women have become a tad too picky when it comes to their relationship expectations.This may or may not be the case with you, but I'm guessing from the way you've worded your question that you've got a few man-meeting criteria points that may stop you from finding love.
However, you'll need to tweak the standard variables to ensure you only get high-quality matches.I got married young to a recovering addict who relapsed in a big way. He was nice and cute and we had fun pajama parties, but then he told me about his wife and kid back home. One guy was extremely smart (which is a big deal for me) and liked to do a lot of the same things I do, but about a month into the relationship he told me he wasn't falling for me, and then spent the next five months using me as his backup girl while he looked for someone better.I tried to honor my vows but eventually the betrayals and threats of violence were too much and I ended it. Yes, I know, I'm equally at fault for allowing him to treat me in such a manner.In Why You're Not Getting Responses, I've outlined two reasons directly related to your dating profile that may be holding you back: your "tag line", and your profile photo.If you don't have a profile photo posted, this may be the only reason why you aren't getting responses.